Anyway, firstly, Congratulations! You are about to join quite an elite club - J Lo, Mariah, Celine, Brad and Ange, H from Steps and myself of course. We're all in the twin parent posse.
So with that in mind I thought I'd give you a heads up on the joys life might hold for you in a few months' time. It can be quite a learning curve.
1. Forget ever going anywhere in a hurry again. You and Bey may think that you are the celebrities now but when those twins come along every outing becomes at least three times as long as you get stopped by everyone, and I mean everyone. The only difference is that they aren't interested in you at all. Imagine that! No, they really just want to ask all about the twins and squidge their little cheeks (which trust me, gets a bit annoying). Sometimes you might think its just easier to stay at home instead. It is.
2. Forget ever getting through the doors of your favourite shops ever (or anywhere, even doing Blue Ivy's school run is going to be tricky). I'll be honest here, double buggies these days are very cool, but the one thing that has never really changed about them is that they are all flipping massive. The instructions may say that it fits through a standard single doorway but basically that's a lie. Get used to a lifetime of ramming the bastard thing through every doorway you encounter taking plaster off walls, paint off door frames and possibly flesh off other people's ankles as you go. It's like the manufacturers have inflicted them on us twin parents as the yang to the yin that is the ultimate cuteness that sits inside them. The good news? You'll only have to manage this for around three years. After that you'll be chasing two children in opposite directions instead. Yeah I know, fun right?!
3. Get down the gym now and lift some weights. Not only will you look HOT but it will make the task of lifting the giant baby changing bag that you need for carrying the twins' belongings everywhere you go a whole lot easier. Twins need loads of gear and I'm betting baby Gucci doesn't exactly pack light.
4. Be extra nice to your bestest friends/mother. You and Bey are going to need a night out eventually. And, to be honest, there aren't a lot of people who willingly babysit three kids at once, especially when two of them are in some kind of crying, puking tag team. So be nice to your mates and your mother and they'll only
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5. Get used to being a referee. Pretty much as soon as they learn to speak. The "I am older than him" row is my favourite (especially when you bear in mine that it is only by two minutes). Everything you give them has to be equal, everything they do has to be the same. Once I had to split a sweet in two. A sweet! If I'm totally honest, this gets quite exhausting eventually. Earplugs may be the answer actually.
And finally, I know I'm painting a bit of a bleak picture of twin parenting here, but I've asked my husband what it's like being a twin dad and he said he wouldn't change it for the world. He also really likes going to work now. So I'm expecting an awful lot of new albums from you over the next year (and probably a tour).
Love to you, Beyonce, and Blue Ivy during this exciting time.
Peace out (or whatever it is you musician types say).